Dating gender stereotypes
As you can see, the typical speed-dating event relies heavily on the “male approaches female” norm.
Consistent with norm expectations, speed-dating research reveals that, women are pickier than men when indicating interest in potential partners, To test this, the researchers had over 300 undergraduates participate in speed-dating events.
And if they do not conform to this norm, then she is heartless, and he is a sissy! Stereotypes sound like exaggerated, monstrous versions of the very well-ingrained gender roles that we all would like to agree exist for a good reason at some level or the other.
But the truth is that gender-roles themselves are deeply rooted ideals that we probably need to examine, to see if they’re really as healthy as we’d like to think.
If the male and female indicate mutual interest, the organizer gives them each other’s contact information and the would-be couple takes it from there.
If done efficiently, a speed dater could meet over a dozen potential dating partners in less than an hour.
That’s because we have what psychologists call , or a sequence of events that we typically expect to occur in social situations.
For the other events, men and women performed a Sadie Hawkins-like role reversal: men stayed in one place while women circulated around the room.
Said another way, there was a “Sadie Hawkins Effect,” such that when women were forced to go from man to man during the speed-dating event, those women acted like stereotypical men by stating that they had interest in more of the potential partners.
These findings show how a widely assumed sex difference—women are picky about who they date, men aren’t—could largely be an artifact of social situations.
Their origin: media, culture, social messages Right from when we’re born, our parents decide to delegate gender roles.
Baby boys get toys such as guns and trucks and wear denim shorts, and little girls dress in pink, get Barbie dolls (don’t even get me started on these voluptuous plastic devils) and as seems to be the case in several Indian households- miniature kitchen utensils!Did you know this form of humor is but a subtle manifestation of gender stereotypes?Read on to see how gender roles and stereotypes can be dangerous to your romantic relationships and how you can choose to have a healthier, wholesome love-life!The process repeats until everyone at the event has “dated” each other.